What i should know about 'russian women' scam
Men ask various questions. Some questions are naive, others can even seem to be stupid. But if they are asked, they need to be answered. We asked an American man (also a victim of scammers) to answer these questions from his point of view.
She scammed me! She is a scammer!!! It's your holy duty to punish her!
Although we understand how frustrating being scammed can be, we have no authority punish her. We can try and help you get your money back, but that is the extent of our ability. If you have lost money to a scammer we would suggest you file a complaint with the Internet Crime complaint center at http://www.ic3.gov
She is at an Internet cafe right now. Can you catch her?
While we can try and help you get your money back, we have no authority to detain a person. If you wish to file a complaint you can go to this web site http://www.ic3.gov
She will go to a bank to get my Western Union transfer. Can you arrest her?
Same answer as the above question
I know that she is a scammer but I still love her! What should I do?
Unfortunately, most scammers are actually males. They get pictures from pretty girls to entice men to write to them. This situation is not real, and you should move on to find someone who deserves your love. There are many girls that are honest and looking for a husband. We are always here to help you find that special someone.
I know that she is a scammer but I wish to marry her! Can you get her to me?
Same answer as above
I love her! I'll come and look into her eyes. Maybe, she will change???
If there are talking about scammers... then same answer as above. May want to add this too... you cannot make someone love you, if it was meant to be, it will happen.
Why is it that men get very disillusioned with Russian & Ukrainian women, through scammers?
Many men find it difficult to share emotions. Many men also find it difficult to trust women. If they hear stories about people taking advantage of men by playing with their emotions, it is very hard for them to trust that situation. Russian women have been in the news, on the Internet, and on TV so much in the US, men tend to believe what they see and hear. And most of the information about russian women is negative unfortunately, so they have a very negative image about any women from these countries.
Why do they just want money and will sell their sexy appearance and good heart for it?
A lot of these questions can be grouped together, because the answer is the same. This question falls under the same category as I know she is a scammer but I still love her. 99% of these scammers are men....once you tell them this, it might make them angry, but it will also help them get over it.
Why is it if you miss with the first two women you ever start with, the road then is long and takes a lot of persistence?
I am not sure I understand this question. But if they are saying why can't this happen the first time for everyone, then I would answer something like this. Finding your soul mate can be a long and frustrating journey. But, if you ask someone who has found their special someone, they will tell you it was well worth it, and they would do it all again.
Why is that good really good men, not angels, cannot find women in their own land? They want the good hearts and great looks, then it seems it's way too difficult to find?
This is a tough one. The search for your soul mate is difficult not matter where you look. Anything worth the effort is going to be difficult. I think a lot of men give up easily, or perhaps are going about it wrong. My best suggestion for men like this, is to join a good email or Internet group and discuss options with others. There are many options these days for dating and to find that special someone. So discuss your options and find what works for you.
Is there a way to screen potential bad eggs from ruining the process for the good?
Most reputable agencies have some sort of screening process. Some even meet the girls in person. If you are concerned about the women you are talking to you, I would suggest doing a background check.
I know they want to put their best foot forward and mostly the women are insecure, but the profiles are fantasy, pure and simple, they are so honest why is the profile so unreal making a man feel Hmm?
I am not sure how to answer this question. This man has a bad attitude from what I get from this question. I would probably put something like this. Women have ideals just like you and I. Sometimes those ideals can seem like a fantasy to some, while others might find it romantic. I am sure if you look some more you will find a profile that will seem more real to you. If you need help we can assist you in your search.
Most men here want a good woman not a model or a sports star, can we make it more real?
Hmm can we make it more real? The only way to make it real would be for the man to visit the girl. I would suggest they call the girl, use web cam sessions, get pictures I believe you also have a service to have them take a personality test. All of these things can make the relationship more real. But it is up to the man to come to her city and spend time in the woman's "kitchen" as they say. That is the only true way to make the relationship real.
Please tell me why good women are asking for good men with lots of money, and not so great attitude?
If a woman is only interested in money, how good of a wife can she be? I would walk away from a woman who is only interested in money. Now that being said, of course a woman wants to be supported by her man. I think that if you were to tell a woman you can support her, that should be good enough, if not, well that is probably not the woman for you.
Is there a way to let men know that Russian women are very sweet loving etc?
This is another tough one. And is similar to one I answered before. The only way to let men know about russian women is to give them information. Invite them too look around your web site, invite them to join some support groups (email, yahoo, etc). The only way to build trust is through communication and the passing of information. When I was looking into searching in Russia for my future wife, the best information I got was from˙the several lists I joined, from men who took the time out of their day to tell me some very important information.