Now it's time to choose. To choose the form of correspondence, the
place to find your woman and the woman
to correspond with.
If you choose corresponding through snail-mail, it will take much more
time before the final result. At the same
time, there are a lot of
girls in Russia who don't have free access to Internet, and if you
have enough time and
patience, you can win a real treasure in this
way. But there are thousands of girls you can freely contact through
e-mail - so it's up to you to decide.
There are hundreds of sites in Internet where you can find a Russian
woman. The majority of them charge you for
the address - but if you're
reading this, you must have understood already, that there are places
where you can
find addresses free. When a Russian girl decides to find
a husband abroad, she doesn't place her ad only at one
site. You
shouldn't afraid of it! There are methods to win a heart of a woman,
and most of you are aware of them.
Moreover, from my experience I know
that girls receive the fewest number of responses from paid sites and
prefer to place their ads at free sites, including international one,
not intended for Russian women only. If you have time
and patience, you'll find plenty of free addresses in Internet and won't have to pay
for them!
When you decide what woman to write, be realistic! Women here are
certainly not dying from hunger to marry the
first foreigner they
meet. Or do you really think a woman 30 years younger than you will
really love you? Or do you
think you'll get a response from a
beautiful woman if you don't have even a usual appearance? I don't
want you to
think that appearance is more important than inner
qualities, I'm sure it's not true, but sorry, I'm looking for a person
I will be able to love, and I know I won't be able to marry a person
lower than me, for example. So be realistic and
read carefully the
wishes women write usually in their ads. If she writes that want to
meet a man not older than 35
and you're 36, that's OK, but if you're
60 - believe me, she won't respond your letter.
At the same time, please don't be intimidated by beautiful women! Very
often the most beautiful girls receive the
fewest number of responses.
If you consider your appearance usual, it doesn't mean anything, try
and write to a
model - maybe she will find that you are the right man for her,
just because others were afraid of writing to her or
just because
you're kind, responsible, serious etc. - your personality is
unusual...
I agree that to get better results it's good to send a first letter to
many women. But I'm sure you must narrow your
choice to 2-3 women,
maybe in several letters, but not correspond for months with hundreds
of them (maybe you're
such a hard-working person you can do it). A
girl-friend of mine corresponded with an Australian for half a year
(!),
stopped communication with others and started arranging a visa to
Australia - and suddenly received a letter from
him telling that he is
sorry, they had to stop communication and he hoped she would find
another man. Do you
want to be that guy?
